A question . A question of opportunity and need that is not sort of say in your earlier, but I float in this circle ... and the question to ask is: "How, in what capacity, in what condition, in which predisposition there arises the meeting? "The meeting with the person you want to love, and also on this statement I would like to be a little clearer.
Since you also have well said that to love means to be with, share, be something unique, the condition for the person you meet is the person you want to love is the desire to be with her, to share, to become something unique, common body, so even if the person you meet asks you for help and that can lead you in this desire to love, to be with, is the person you want to love, in this case is the person that you devote as opposed as counterpart to what should be the match.
Not necessarily to love someone is to have frequent visits are essential, time, history, even the person you meet for the first time in a fleeting moment can be the person that you want to love, whether between you and she puts this need, this need, this desire to be with, to be something unique, to create communion.
Let us therefore what must be the question: what is the answer, how, how it arises as the meeting? The answer that comes spontaneously although difficult to define better ... the answer is to place yourself in freedom. Asking
freedom means in your part really put out of balance, leaving those that are the certainties through which of course your mind will seek ways to create strategies and solutions ... so on your part to be free means to be - yes, really - out of balance and free from those who are your shields, your arms, your quality your goodness, your beauty. Ask yourself this way, truly free to ask the meeting to take place outside, above and below those are the conventions, skills, recognize their potential, and are not ... your true potential, are simply weapons, are simply tools that you have honed through - yes - those are the main points and evidence on of them, so put your effort to strip naked free really means those who are the tools - if we do not want to call them weapons - such as are their clothes - if we do not want to call them guards - but ask yourself this, available, receptive to the 'meeting will take place.
course becomes spontaneous glimpse solution, see who can "help" - that's a term I do not like to use and very little use - when they met someone who's never the person who needs help ... . the match is equal, the meeting is free, the meeting is really in an equilibrium condition states, equal, similar, fraternal. On your part, this being free from those who love you as much freedom.
It is easy for the person sick or confused, unable to understand, is a raging torrent, and when you place availability as this stream flows waterfall, swollen and full of water, for so long pressed against dikes and your be there at that time, in conditions of freedom, does nothing but open these dams and the murmur becomes unbearable, uncontrollable, and they are not free of the person who stands beside you and wants to be loved.
always the person in distress, the person who suffers an imbalance forced, coerced, continue to develop what are the reasons and causes that led to this imbalance, and never will be free to express what the imbalance leads to that person, and the objective is really to put the meeting on being out of balance and not about what led to the imbalance. Pay attention to this aspect, believe me, it really becomes a river in the middle of the need to express what were the causes and reasons for suffering, that he who suffers it recognizes it as such and not as a situation of imbalance.
The freedom of the place when they discovered this unbearable weight, this need of the mind to create due to the effect that the forces in that suffering which he called disequilibrium. Freedom for this person will be to go further so that it can safely and freely express what happens in a situation where he is located, drive out those that are the causes, to ensure that they slide and decantino lack of strength and energy, because it appears what is the situation of being in that moment, in that place, in a situation of meeting of two people who want to love each other.
is natural that this takes place the lid off, throw it emotional, it is natural that at that moment that he is freer to be able to wait and see the time at which creep into Its free standing, naked, precise, then the other will be brought with them, will be the meeting that takes place in the state of being and not in progress, stop time, stop the space, found in disequilibrium, with the hands that hold each other lest the fall so feared, so terrible, so dangerous.
be free in the encounter, allowing others to be free in the meeting. Always the one who suffers the imbalance caused by an illness or an inability to understand, is anxious to try to remove those causes. The mind tries desperately to reason because sometimes when the ground will be seized can be removed, chased him away, but this is not so. Many times they met through the despair, the inability to understand how to grasp because nothing concrete can be grasped to be removed, but simply that freedom has to be recognized not as a stumbling block, obstacle, ballast.
The meeting always takes place in freedom, nudity in some way - we use this term - in the nakedness of the man who is acknowledged with tattered clothes, with a body in pain and bleeding and the other one who stands in white clothes, with the answers in hand, this is not a meeting, this is nonsense, this is presumption ... on both sides, no doubt ... this is not to help and be helped, because when you recognize a situation like this, someone has to be helped, someone who can help, we are already equipped, armed, protected and unable to be free, so ... the meeting never happen, the semblance of love that communion, only to be defined, does not happen ... but it is pulling them, the leaves, it is sailing, you paint, the forces are in narrow situations without success. Freedom is the answer.
Freedom is a term that has to be acknowledged, and freedom for every individual situations and has connotations just different from those that are mainstays, the chairs in which the child clings, grateful for the support, grateful for the ability to stand next to them ... almost using what is the rigidity and integrity. It is a sign of weakness, a sign of immaturity.
Strive, in what is our circle, to find this freedom, freedom, however, leads you to not have arguments, leads you to not have the ways and reasons, it takes you to feel lost, with nothing in hand ... sometimes inability to see, lost in feeling alone, not to recognize similar next to you, but the way is certainly that.
The function of a circle, a group that is also of allowing each member to stand defenseless, unable to understand ... but free and not see through the glasses, not through lights that create precise definition, but only perceive shapes and sounds that make no sense if not to find echoes in you, distant echoes ancient ... ...
is no doubt that working too much with what is the mind and logic can sometimes create trouble ...
It is true that constantly beat in a box to create failure, frustration, but surely This will better define what are the limits of this case and understand that this box exists and has boundaries that common ground allows you to address them, shake, torn.
limit and the awareness of it is useful not break down or get confused by the vision of its own, your limitations. Define them, I repeat, can only be helpful in overcoming them, shake them ....
Trying to better define those who are my mainstays, my certainties, I am still able to discern what is the structure.
The structure is something that is not tied to becoming, is immutable, is the primary and primordial state, is the matrix.
enough for me to even look back to see the static nature of this design, but the door just to avert the birth of what is sure to create a new situation for which I was not prepared. ... but it will be a constraint, a provocation, is becoming a movement that never stops, is continuous, and through it I find myself changing what is my being. Building a
mind, logic, turn it and make it alive, it is a difficult task.
Smooth, create, define better what is my presence here among you, it's really hard ... and I'm ready for everything. I just try to compare what my be the one that you, in your desire to be like brothers and I put a template.
Define milestones that I am sure will no longer be conscious and active presence in my being new, is not useful, is not propositional, is not capable ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...
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